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How do I deal with these
feelings I have for someone?

#firstlove, #help, #puberty

Your head might be whirling with all these new feelings you have for someone. But what do you do!?

Here are some tips for getting to know someone better.

Don't look away! It may give him the wrong impression and he may think you're not interested. Boys are not mind readers, so when you see him in the corridor or classroom, smile and say “Hi”.

Ignore your friends if they don't think he's cute. It's good they don't like him too. But don't be put off. Good friends should support your choice no matter what.

Rather than asking someone on a date, why not invite a group of friends to go somewhere? This takes the pressure off it being a date and gives you a chance to get to know each other better while having a laugh with your friends too.

If you find they don’t feel the same way about you, don’t worry. Everyone is attracted to others for different reasons and it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you, it just means you're not suited.

One last thing, no boy is worth losing a friend over, so if you find yourself attracted to your friend’s boyfriend, step away. NOW.

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Help for Alio

If you have his number then just ask with a short message that is subtle but still to the point.If you don't have his number then speak to him privately at school or whenever you see him and just again keep it short and subtle but straight to the point.Dont be scared and if he says he doesn't feel the same way just calmly say ok Sorry I suck at advice :/

4lly

I am in a play (Oliver twist) I am Nancy and I really like the boy how is playing Bill Sykes and my best Friend is Bet and she used to be his girlfriend and it is always really awkward with us three in the dances. WHAT SHOULD I DO????

ANE

AWESOME TIP

Dance??

I'm 14 and me and this guy and we have been friends for ages and he used to like me last year but recently we both like each other again and I know this cos he told me and he said I was pretty and we always phone but he has a girlfriend so I'm confused what should I do?!

HopelesslyDevoted????

I have a crush on a guy who is in none of my classes how do I get him to notice me?!?! Am very shy so yh... All advice welcome

to Alice / JackWills

im pretty sure this is totally normal.. act to her as normal and ask her sexuality maybe.. try to not seem too needy aswell and just try to get to know her more?? idk im not the best at advice ~ chubby duck/ Hazel :) x

chubby duck ;3

i feel like i have feelings for a girl.... like less than boys but still.... its kinda making me feel sssuuuuppppeeerrrrr awkward too...

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