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How does my
body change
during puberty?

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‘Puberty’ can arrive as early as 8 for some girls, which can be really confusing as you might wonder what's happening to you and why.

Well, these changes occur when chemicals in your body called hormones cause changes to your physical, emotional and sexual development.

There are lots of changes you may start noticing:

  • Hair in places that you’re not used to (under your arms and between your legs)
  • Your breasts start to become fuller
  • Your body may develop curves
  • You may sweat more
  • The skin on your face may get a bit oilier, which can lead to spots or black heads
  • Your hair may also become greasier
  • You may start to notice a change to your moods; one minute happy the next sad
  • AND you'll get your first period!



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Not so easy to spot as the physical changes, but your emotions may be on a rollercoaster too. You might:

  • Find you’re happy one minute then burst into tears the next.
  • Be extra sensitive to comments made by your family.
  • Be anxious about how you look or self-conscious about how you behave in front of others.
  • Argue with your parents a lot.
  • Start to see others as more than just friends.


coffee may
increase PMS

How do I deal with this?


If this sounds familiar then make sure you're being nice to yourself! If you’re feeling self-conscious, it’s perfectly normal. Don’t beat yourself up about it and maybe chat to your friends and family about your feelings so they can support you and understand.


Boys are going
through the
same thing

#boys, #puberty

They’ll be going through big changes too, such as growing chest hair and gaining a more muscular physique. Their voices change too and sometimes quite noticeably. They can find it quite embarrassing going from high pitched one minute to quite deep the next!


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I really wish I found out about this website before or when I got my period cos i found it 2 years after ;-;. I got all the signs of my period when I was 9 and i got my period at 11, now I'm 13


When my younger sister saw me with boobs and pubes for the first time she had a lot of questions plus I think she was amazed at how my body looked different to hers.


I am twelve in a week and I have big tits, pubic hair down below, hair under my arms that I shave, I am five foot and Severn inches, I have vaginal discharge but although I have these things, I have not had a period. My auntie got her period when she was Severn.


Hi everyone feel satisfied to know that I am not the only one going through these phases.I have public hair,boobs growing bigger and bigger😑and hair down there sometimes I really feel disgusted looking at the hair 😩.Buh I gonna details used to it. Bye😘


I'm 12 the youngest in my class☺.I have breast buds which re getting bigger every month, hair down there,long stings of hair under my pits and a little bit of discharge. My elder sis had her in period at age 13 and I am getting close.I feel excited😀 and scared😟.

Anonymous girl

advice: if you think about being a pre pubescent person. Don’t cause even late bloomers worry about puberty so it’s the same thing.

its okay

MY story:so a couple months ago i stated growing boobs in the process i started growing hair down there and underarm hair my brothers tease me for the underarm hair i didn't know who to tell so i talk to my sister but know i feel weird so i come to this site and it helps me sooooooooooo much and i don't know if i should where a training bra and i don't know if i should ask my mom


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