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Tell Us Your First Kiss Story…


Lots of us dread our first kiss…some of us can’t wait and practice on the back of our hands. What was your first kiss like? We’d love to hear your story to help other girls feel less anxious or pressured into something that should be a very special moment.

See our blog entitled First Kiss for some tips on what to expect.


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I had a HUGE crush on this guy named Louis 2 years ago, in year 3. We were in the same class, same bus and same neighborhood. He would play soccer at recess and I don't think he ever payed attention to me...well that's what i thought. A guy in our class through a party and of course, the whole class went. I fell and scratched myself on the face but no one noticed except Louis. He followed me to the bathroom to make sure I was okay. While he was cleaning my face, I lost my mind and kissed him. Turns out he always liked me🥰 We have been dating for 2 years now

Jo March

🎶 My first kiss went a little like this 🎶: It happened when I was 14. I was with my crush at a skate park where we would always hang out and we were skateboarding. He was standing right next to me as I get on my board and I accidentally slip and fall his arms. It’s was quite awkward and I was blushing a LOT. He then told me to stop fooling around in a joking manner and I just kissed him. I never regretted what I did, because we’ve been dating for a solid three years now. 😃


I was waiting for the bus (btw I was 13) and it was only me and this boy (Joe) there .it turns out we both liked each other it was quite foggy and cold and it was awkward. Eventually it was so cold and we started huddling together. He then looked into my eyes and then stepped forward and kissed me. I was really happy it happened because it is 23 years later and we are married with a 2 year old girl. I have never been happier. ☺️


I havent had a proper first kiss but in year 5 my i was walking around with my best friends playing truth or dare and when it was my go they dared me to kiss this boy i was friends with. It turns out that boy and his friends had been listening to us and heard what we said so they dared him to kiss me and they were pushing us together and eventually we just had a quick kiss on the lips but that was it. btw i am in year 7 now


My first kiss happened when I was 16. He was the son of my mother’s childhood friend and he was very cute, and his name was Lawrence. Lawrence was a very popular boy at school, being on the local and school soccer, hockey, and volleyball teams. As for me I was just a bookish, artsy, unpopular girl. He had a crush on me for a very long time, we knew each other very well since childhood because he was a family friend. I didn’t like him much, he would prank me and try to flirt but I didn’t like boys. When I was 15, I was asked out by this dude named Dan, and so we dated. Lawrence didn’t like this at all, and was very jealous. After dating Dan for a few months I started to like Lawrence differently, I started to think he was very attractive and cute, and when I broke up with Dan telling him I had feelings for someone else, I realized Lawrence hooked up with a girl named Diana, who was a popular girl and bullied me as a kid. I was outraged. My friends were comforting me, telling me he did that to make me jealous only, not that he liked Diana at all. I started to hate him. He tried talking to me at his family Christmas party and at school. But I completely ignored him. Until one day, I found a bunch of notes in my locker from L.J (his initials), with things like ‘I’m sorry’ , ‘I love you’, ‘You’re so beautiful’, and the sweetest thing he said was ‘I’m going through a tough time without you. I can’t stop thinking about you Fliss (my name’s Felicity, he gave me such a cute nickname ❤️❤️❤️).’ I was trying so hard to be mad at him, I couldn’t do it anymore. My thoughts were always about him. One day when I was putting things in my locker his younger sister Thalia came up to me. She’s very nice with me, and always shipped me with Lawrence, even when I had no feelings for him. She told me Saturday night, her five siblings and parents were going to her basketball game, and that Lawrence would be at home alone. She told me to go see him because he was having a bad time and couldn’t stop talking about me. I realized that it was time. ..... Saturday, 6:00 pm I stop by at his house. Lawrence is shocked, and so happy he hugs me. I wasn’t surprised, so I took him by the hand and said “cmon let’s go to the local library’. He hated the library, but didn’t look upset so we went. There was a Starbucks next to the bookshop, so he said to me to wait outside and that he would get us some hot chocolate. We drank and then he stopped me at the alleyway between the library and Starbucks, which was empty. I started to shiver, and so he came close to me, and touched my face. His hands were warm, and I was trembling, but I am pretty sure it was not from the weather. He admitted his mistakes, and feelings. Before he could say ’I love you’, I grabbed his face and pulled him into a kiss. His lips were cold, but he grabbed me tight and never let go. It was a beautiful, passionate kiss. I had butterflies in my stomach, his hands were gently going through my hair. After what felt like millions of years, he whispered in my ear, ‘I’ve been waiting for you to do that for a long time Fliss.’ So we went back to his house, hand in hand, and when we reached his room, we made out for the rest of the night. I felt like I was doing something wrong, but I couldnt help it. My mother wouldn’t be worried though, since she knew Lawrence’s family so much. It was my favourite night of my life. It’s been 15 years now, and he’s my husband. We’ve been through so much, and our first kiss was probably the best of them. We have a son, and our family couldn’t be better. I am so grateful I had the guts to kiss him in the alleyway. So dear reader, if you have feelings for someone, don’t hide them. Let them know. Don’t be shy. If they don’t like you back, then don’t put pressure on yourself. You are strong. That’s all I have to say.


I was 15 with my first bf and we spent the day together, then we were lying on the floor in my room and he said "may I kiss thee" and then did. Sweet, but we broke up 5 months later (after plenty more kisses)


I'm really worried to have my first kiss, my best friend offered to give me it, what do I do? She only wants to like demonstrate


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