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It’s only natural to want or need some puberty advice when you start to see your body changing.

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1/28/2020 3:48:21 PM

Hi how could I tell my mum that i started my period, I just feel a bit awkward about doing it? X

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1/28/2020 9:41:33 AM

I saw your answer in which you said to maintain hygiene wash your vagina with plain warm water. But i remember you also stricitly prohibit douching because it disturbs the balance down there. So... whats the case?

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1/28/2020 9:39:28 AM

What does discharge from the butthole mean? Is it normal?

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1/27/2020 10:40:45 PM

What are ways to get money age 13???

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1/27/2020 10:40:00 PM

I hate my current hairstyle a lot but when I ask my mum if I can cut it shorter (Im a few inches longer than shoulder length) she saysoOUH AS YoU hAvE ReaLLy cUrLY hAIR YOU canT cUt It AnY ShOrter. My hair is more wavy than curly. Ive tried to have a talk with her so many rinsed and nothing works. What do I do djdjdjfj

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1/27/2020 10:37:08 PM

I wear a 30A bra but I dont have proper boobs yet (somewhere in between the buds and the triangle stage but more still buds) and I feel really bad like Im not worthy of wearing a bra?? Like my boobs arent big enough so I shouldnt be wearing one but I get embarrassed changing topless and crop tops make me feel like a child. What do I do??!?

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1/27/2020 7:00:51 PM

my boobs havent grown in the past year n a half and it makes me self conscious

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1/27/2020 6:56:54 PM

I have just measured my 13 year old daughter for her first bra at home and the measurement I have a ribcage 40 inch and fullest part of breast 38.5 inches what size and cup do I need?

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1/27/2020 6:16:50 PM

Hi vicki I have just started my period and I don't know how to tell my dad as I live with him rather than my mum

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You could send him a text or write him a note, letting him know your period has arrived and you are cool with it, but do need supplies going forward. Ask if you can either go with him to pick some up, or if you are allowed to shop alone if you can have an allowance to purchase your own period products.


1/27/2020 6:16:13 PM

Hi,today a boy passed me a note asking me if I like him I replied with sort of what could this mean ?

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