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6/17/2019 3:02:46 PM

Above 73 on 75 under 64 thanks

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6/17/2019 2:52:32 PM

Above-72cm On-81cm Under-72cm What size bra would you recommend?

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6/17/2019 2:35:56 PM

DCI141 - Regarding this question Vicki. The girl I like is always nice to me, asks how I am all the time and most of all smiles at me. The thing is somethings changed. I found out today that the girl is leaving at the end of Year 12 to go and do an apprenticeship and well I don't want her to. I still want to go out with her because I think she is brilliant. So Vicki, what should I do. I don't want her to go. Should I ask her friends for advice?

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6/17/2019 12:13:23 PM

Hi Vicki, ok so, my best friend was 18 at the beginning of the month so me and my other best friend were planning a surprise, small party for her. So nothing is planned for the party yet and we were deciding dates and the date my friend picked, I cant because Im babysitting and she doesnt care, she wants to have the party that night. When i asked why sh said because its been organised for ages so its not her problem that I cant go. And I only heard about it over the weekend. Im super upset and I dont know what to do. Thanks Vicki

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6/17/2019 9:24:07 AM

DAF165,my discharge is really heavy though and I think lil lets r too small xx

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6/17/2019 8:54:50 AM

I cant sleep on my stomach anymore because my breast keep getting in the way and they hurt if I sleep that way. Is there anyway to sleep on my stomach without my breast hurting?

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6/17/2019 6:45:23 AM

Can you wear a tampon with heavy discharge?

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You should only ever wear a tampon to capture period blood. For discharge I would recommend wearing a pant liner on a daily basis and Lil-Lets have some pretty liners that come in a pouch for discretion when in your school or sports bag...even pocket.


6/17/2019 12:13:45 AM

Above:84cm On:90cm Under:77cm Bra size?

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6/17/2019 12:12:45 AM

I lost my virginity very young and me and my boyfriend had sex near enough every day for around a year and a half, I knew it was wrong at the time but we couldnt stop our selves we have now been broke up a while and its become clear to me that my vagina isnt as tight as it was before we was together which would be obvious but Im really worried that it will never be tighter again and that future boyfriend or boys I have sexual encounters with will think that its too loose or unattractive in a way. Will it go back any tighter at all or will it stay the same forever ?

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6/16/2019 11:53:44 PM

Hi Vicky you from uk

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