KYO275

11/21/2019 4:23:22 PM

Hi Vicki its TBK280 just wanted to say they didnt ask me they were talking to each other and said it on a mean tone why was she there

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I really would not overthink this, I am sure they have already forgotten about it and moved on...as should you.

KUR875

11/21/2019 3:20:33 PM

difference between a normal headache/dehydrated headache sensation and a brain tumour head ache sensation?

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Why not try to drink and eat regularly throughout the day and see if the headache goes. Remember to get your eyes checked too as this can cause headaches. Finally, let your parents know that you are experiencing headaches and jot down the times when they happen.

GPR718

11/20/2019 10:48:20 PM

I have a friend who is anorexic. We are in year 9 and this has been going on for a few months now. Some teachers know and her parents know of course and she has to eat her snack and lunch with a teacher, but I feel like not enough is being done, because at break she will throw half her snack away before she has to go to the teacher, but they dont know that. Im really worried about her as she is very thin and small, and her moods have been affected. What should I do?

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Hi, you really do have to trust the teachers and her parents to do what is best for your friend. You may want to let her know that you have seen her throw food away and would hope that she will come clean and let the teacher know. It may be however that as she recovers she will increase the amount of food she eats over the coming months, it will be a hard struggle but with your support I am sure she will get there.

RRK668

11/20/2019 10:28:40 PM

So Im 14 nearly 15 and I dont know my bra size because I havent ever been measured, I usually just guess. Anyways, Im 5 ft and quite skinny however my boobs feel and look big to me, its making me uncomfortable. There not massive but online and in real life I see people who wear bras and boobs the same size as mine now. Ik it sounds weird but Im worried they will grow more and it just makes me nervous, I heard somewhere that u usually are the same size as your mum? Is this true or can they be smaller depending on eating habits and things?. I feel uncomfortable in a majority of clothes so I only wear baggy clothes now, but I feel so uncomfortable and I suffer from bad anxiety and Im just unsure what I can do.

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It can take a while for someone to get used to the size of their breasts and yes whilst genetics play a part, it does not mean your breasts will be identical in size to family members. So please take the time to learn to love your body and stop comparing your figure to that of those around you.

CIU834

11/20/2019 9:41:33 PM

Oki I have come to a dilemma I like bmy bestie lets call her Beth ex called I dunno Luke and then I like my other bestie whos a girl and Im afraid if I tell her and she says no then it will affect our relationship and Ill feel rejected if I ask them and they both say know because I have never had a like that sort of relationship and Im not sure what to do because I like them both and there rlly cute please can I have some advice Thanks from ruby x

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Hi Ruby, firstly wait until you are sure which one of these friends you like the most and want to date. Then be honest and let them know how you feel, chances are they already know. But also let them know that you hope no matter what they will still want to be friends.

TSN702

11/20/2019 9:30:48 PM

Hey so i feel worthless and depressed to the point i cut myself and i had to get talked out of commiting suicide . My friends say i need help.. do i?

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Anyone who feels unhappy enough to self harm and consider suicide needs the help and support of adults, whether they be parents, teachers or trusted support groups. So please take mine and your friends advice and let someone know what is concerning you and they will ensure you get all the help you need.

OCV307

11/20/2019 9:29:15 PM

Im 54 and i weigh 38kg.. am i underweight because i can see all my bones without sucking my tummy in and it freaks my family out and they say im anorexic but i eat a lot. Should i eat faster to gain weight because i eat very slow

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Just eat a healthy diet of three meals a day, do not try to over eat and instead ensure what you eat is healthy and keeps you feeling full. Remember too that your body will be changing over the coming years and these changes may not be identical to friends, because your journey is unique to you and you alone.

AKC501

11/20/2019 9:28:49 PM

Im a lesbian and I get called names because I like girls and Im in y8 any advice on how to ignore them and be me ?

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If other students continue to tease you, it may be a good idea to ask your teacher to have a word about tolerance and diversity, Brook may also be able to help as they offer educational resources your teacher can use when chatting to classmates.

LQU517

11/20/2019 9:26:24 PM

Im worried about when Ill start my period my mum keeps on nagging about it and Im finding it stressful any advice ?? X

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Hi, well a period can arrive anytime between the ages of 8 - 18 and there can be plenty of signs that it is not too far away. It is great that your mum wants to help you manage this special time in your life, ask if you can possibly go shopping for pads or liners, our Lil-lets teens starter pack is ideal and contains all you need for your first period.

DCA323

11/20/2019 8:58:02 PM

Hey Vicki, so basically I like this boy but he's dating another girl (I don't know who she is) and I think he likes me. So today my friend said to me "I think you should date him!" so I said "NOOOO I would never date him!" (even though I would) He flirts with me, and so do I and then we all started talking about boys and about his girlfriend and then he said to me "You know you would wanna" and he winked at me. WHAT SHOULD I DO ??

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If this boy is already dating someone then I am afraid he is off limits until he is single and free to date.