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Tell us your first bra story


Buying your first bra is sometimes tricky. Not only do we feel awkward and nervous when talking about it with our parents, but then we have to choose a size and style from the huge variety available. A girl’s first bra is important, so you want to make sure you have all the facts. For tips and advice on fittings, breast development, talking about your first bra, and everything else; check out our real-life, first bra stories from teenage girls like you below.


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You have nothing to worry about honey. You are very beautiful, kind, and sweet! As long as you are a kind person you are amazing! You are perfect just the way you are honey! Lots of love, Katie Lee

To valeria From Lily#bloggerteen!

Hi valeria! You are sosos kind! Thank you for all of the support it rlly sucks that i broke my wrist but i had my surgery for it on october 4th and i am currently home resting still but i am banned from roller blading until further noctice!😂 But i am due to get my stiches taken out in around 9-13 days so yeah i will keep you all posted on how my stiches appiontment goes! But valeria thank you again and if you ever break your wrist and need surgery ( You get a lot of ice cream haha!) Hope you have an awesome week! XOXO Your friend, Lily#bloggerteen!!!! P.S. i love this site vicki amazing crew, amazing people, and amazing adivce keep working hard! I hope 2 hear from u soon valeria!🦴🩻🛼

ILoveNoodles :D

Hello there!, I'm 15 and I'm waiting for my boobs to grow because they are sososo small, like small triangles (I'm turning 16 in 2 months so I'm afraid they'll never grow more ). Did I tell you that they haven't changed since like 2021? Meaning 2-3 years.. I hope they will get bigger, at least a little, because I'm getting desperate. Anyways, while I wait for them to grow, let me share my first bra story! It was at the end of 6th grade when me and my best friend started to want to get a training bra. I started to develop a few months earlier, at 11-ish but I never thought about getting a bra before, like ever. My bestie and I were the only ones without a bra at our class. Soo one day I was like in the shower, and my mum walked in the bathroom to get something and I was like "Hey mum, I was thinking maybe I'm ready to wear a crop top under my shirt" and then showed her my breast buds. She was really cool about it and a few days later we went shopping and got one white, super soft and stretchy traning bra. I was so happy lol! After a month, my bestie, even tho she hadn't developed yet, got one too and we felt so grown. Two months went by and because the straps of my bra were too big(like in sports bras) and I could not wear it with tank tops, me and mum went to buy one with thin straps. WELL, this shopping day was a bit traumatizing because, the shopping lady wanted to pursued me into buying a real bra, with wire and cups (obviously because it was more expensive and she would take more money from us). I tried it on and I felt uncomfortable not only because it was unconfy and wasn't my size, but also I was not ready for a cup bra yet. But since I felt pressured from the lady, I bought it (stupid I know). I didn't even wire it once. 2years later, at 13, I bought my first real bras -that I actually wore- from m&s that I still use today! I'm a 32AA btw but I ordered two 32A angel bras and they fit perfect. I didn't realize I wrote that much, sorry if it's difficult to read😅 Does any of you relate on the fact that my boobs don't grow?? I feel really lonely thinking I'm the only one😭 I enjoyed writing this💗 What's your story?

to lily#bloggerteen from valeria <3

omg i'm sorry that you broke your wrist, hope you're ok and get well soon!


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To caroline and emz

hi both of you! i think that first of all, this is an increadible site keep upthe great work lil lets! And caroline and emz, i love both of your storys! You are both very cool and sweet! So bye From Lily#bloggerteen!!!!


Had my older sistet with me.nice way to begin my bra story


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