ask vicki


It’s only natural to want or need some puberty advice when you start to see your body changing.

If you have a question about periods, changes to your body or how you're feeling and can’t find the answer on here, ask Vicki for some advice. Just type in your question and press submit.

If our agony aunt Vicki can help you, she'll post an answer in ‘Your questions answered’ page, so don't forget to keep checking it. You don’t have to give us your name, it’s completely anonymous and nobody will know it was you that asked. Vicki knows a lot about periods and sanitary protection but she isn’t an expert on everything and isn’t medically trained, which means she may not be able to answer every question. But don't worry, if she can’t help, she'll suggest where you should go for the right advice.


Terms & conditions




1/16/2022 7:47:24 PM

Hi Vicki, Lola here. Thanks for responding to PFM372. He replied earlier but now waiting for him to reply to something else I sent. I remember when we last spoke he would take a while so Ill try not to think into it too much. From what I said about him maintaining eye contact and laughing at stuff I said, would you say he is interested in me? I really like him and want it to go in the right direction but last time we tried talking it just fizzled out as we were busy and lived in different cities which is going to happen again. But I think there might be a few days left until that. I want to meet with him but too scared to ask and I always get scared that a boy I text doesnt wanna text me back even when they do show interest. I think I doubt myself which makes it go a bit badly with nothing happening. But Im really determined to try my best to make something work. Everyone says he is interested in me but its just so hard to talk. What do you think about if he likes me and what I should do? Thanks

Show Answer


1/16/2022 12:49:59 PM

I have really broad sholders. They stick out and I don't like them

Show Answer

During puberty the body can change in so many ways and often it can take a while to the new shape that is forming. 

For now try to relax and learn to love your transition to adulthood and find ways to balance out your shoulders, a wider skirt may help.


1/16/2022 12:49:22 PM

I stopped playing a game because people keep judging me for playing it. They can see when I'm playing because I'm on their friends list. They say its for babies and now I really miss the game

Show Answer

If you like this game then carry on playing it and laugh off any comments from friends. Simply say, "Hey guys I love this game, shame you don't feel the same way, but hey I guess we are all different".

You see, you should never stop doing what makes you happy just to please others and by standing firm you are showing them that you are strong and know your own mind.


1/16/2022 12:45:59 PM

Are there any types of bras that can really make boobs look smaller

Show Answer


1/16/2022 12:44:41 PM

Hello vicki. I forgot about this website for a year and have come back. Glad to see you're still answering questions. Have a nice day or night :]]]

Show Answer


1/16/2022 12:42:51 PM

Is there any way to stop a period O.o

Show Answer

There is nothing that will naturally stop a period from arriving. Some people who for a specific reason need to delay their period will often speak to their doctor who will prescribe the pill, but this is at their discretion. 

Thankfully, with so many great products on the market a period is no longer an issue and easily managed no matter where you are and what you are doing.


1/16/2022 12:42:18 PM

I've tried so many different face washes but my acne ha stayed for years. Theres also lots of acne scars on my face because of picking at the acne. My face is all covered and it isn't going away :(

Show Answer


1/16/2022 11:48:34 AM

Hi Vicki, so I saw this boy I used to speak to about a year ago (removed) And would you mind deleting the main bulk of the question. Thank you - Lola x

Show Answer


1/16/2022 8:33:29 AM

my friend got scouted to be a model at the beach. im unbelievably jealous. ive always thought she was prettier than me and i guess now i know she is

Show Answer

People are not always chosen for their attractiveness, models can be quirky or have unusual traits. 

My tip is to continue being yourself and be happy for your friend, if she does decide to take on modelling assignments she will find them extremely hard work.


1/15/2022 9:59:31 PM

How can I get a guy to like me?

Show Answer