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It’s only natural to want or need some puberty advice when you start to see your body changing.

If you have a question about periods, changes to your body or how you're feeling and can’t find the answer on here, ask Vicki for some advice. Just type in your question and press submit.

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PAS076

4/2/2025 11:26:48 AM

So hi Vicki two questions. . . . Why is it kinda itchy around my pubic hair area and also why haven't I gotten my period yet because I've had two years of discharge and my mom got her period when she was my age so I'm just a tad bit confused. Thanks so much.

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KTC180

4/2/2025 7:49:30 AM

How old do you have to be to use tampons?

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Hi, there really is no age for using tampons. I always advise that you have 4-5 periods before trying tampons, this allows you to get used to your flow and cycle, both of which can be a little erratic for the first few years. Once you do feel ready to try tampons consider what absorbency you want and check out the Lil-Lets range.

GBV470

4/2/2025 7:49:15 AM

What type of pads are good for girls about 11, I have my first period and my moms pads are way too big.

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Hi, here at Lil-Lets we understood very early that girls new to periods needed specific products that would fit nicely into their underwear, and that sometimes adult pads were just too big. For this reason we created our teens range of pads and liners, ideal for smaller bodies, here is the link, and details about where to purchase.

Teens: Period Products For Teenagers | Lil-Lets

EON611

4/2/2025 7:48:34 AM

I hate my boobs, I am the only one in my class who has them and I feel like everyone is staring at me.

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JHM307

4/2/2025 7:48:08 AM

Vicki can a period start at night do you think?

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Yes, periods can arrive at anytime of day or night, so if you feel that your period is not too far away, then it may be a good idea to wear pant liners and keep some pads with you when out and about. Check out our teens range of products ideal for those new to periods, shorter and narrower than adult products but just as absorbent.

Teens: Period Products For Teenagers | Lil-Lets

KNS573

4/1/2025 5:06:32 PM

Hi it's LXI545, thanks for the reply, I'll look at those. I have another question too though, I've only tried to use non applicator tampons but I'm wondering which you think is easier and if I should try normal applicator ones, buy a reusable applicator, or just stick to without?

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EGU467

4/1/2025 4:00:10 PM

How do you use tampons?

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Hi, great question and trust me even though it can take a little practice, once you've tried tampons you will be so glad you did.

My top tips are below:

  • Relax
  • Always try on your heaviest of days - generally days 2 or 2.
  • Insert the tampon in a slanting direction towards the base of your spine.
  • Don't worry if you don't get it right first time, and can feel the tampon, you can either remove and start again with a new one, or try to push the tampon up a little farther with your finger.

Check out our video for more advice.

How to Insert a Tampon | Usage Instructions | Lil-Lets

EAH266

4/1/2025 3:30:54 PM

Hi I've been experiencing a lot of mood swings and I find it really weird one second I'm laughing with friends but the next I'm sobbing my eyes out for no particular reason idk what to do have you got any tips on how to handle them - Connie aged 10

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Hi Connie, I know how you feel it can all be a bit overwhelming can't it! But trust me it won't last forever and there are some things you can do to make this time easier. Check out all the fabulous blogs on our site and in particular under the Emotions section, you will really find them useful. Here is the link. Look for Managing Your Emotions, Be Kind To Yourself, Feeling Positive, Feeling Confident, to name but a few.

Emotions advice

LXI545

4/1/2025 11:57:27 AM

Hi! I recently found some lil let's teen tampons in my sister's old bag, I googled them but I can't find where to buy more. They're not on boots or superdrug and I found some lil let's teen super tampons on Amazon but it said currently unavailable. Can I get more of these and where from? Have they been discontinued and if so why and will they ever come back???

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Hi, unfortunately these have now been discontinued from the Lil-Lets teens range, due to insufficient interest. But you may find our lite or regular non-applicator absorbencies are just as suitable if you are new to tampons.

Tampons: Applicator & Non-applicator Tampons | Lil-Lets

HGG600

3/31/2025 8:02:23 PM

You have talked about discharge right ? So I have it really bad and I dont know if my mum notices it when I put my knickers in the wash but should I tell her so she can buy me liners or should I continue to use the ones from school -Madelyn aged 11

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Hi Madelyn, if discharge bothers you, or is making your feel uncomfortable during the day, then yes have a chat to your mum and ask about panty liners, especially our teens ones, that will fit snugly into your underwear. See our link below.

Our Period Products | Lil-Lets