LMS620

10/14/2021 2:54:02 PM

hi, in your new reusable applicator, can you use a lite tampon, or do you have to use a regular tampon? thanks! x

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Hi, you can use, lite, regular, super or super plus when using our new reusable applicator.

HPO276

10/14/2021 11:59:33 AM

i am quite late on my period and im scared im pregnant, me and my boyfriend had sex with a condom could i still be pregnant

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If your period is late and you have been sexually active using a condom it is unlikely you are pregnant, but you could always take a pregnancy test if you feel this will leave you feeling less anxious.

JYK156

10/13/2021 11:28:56 PM

Hiya Vicki!! :) So Im best friends with a guy who has a girlfriend (they are long distance). He joked about being my boyfriend but i previously had saw signs he had a crush on me - and cause of all this- I confronted that I think he has a crush on me and then said thats why before I said Im not interested in getting into a relationship at all with anyone, so you wouldnt get your hopes up. Because in the past he made comments saying how I have the same values he does and he talked about how things arent going well between him and his girlfriend. I dont want him to get his hopes up anyway and hes in a relationship! Im not interested in getting in a relationship ever. He then said to me If me and my gf ever broke up in the future, I would date you as we share the same values etc. I said Id never get in a relationship as it wouldnt work with anyone for my personal reasons and he said well you never know what the future holds. He was complimenting me and saying how he values me as a person- but later after this conversation I confronted him weeks later to say I know if you shouldve said if me and my gf werent together and I took a long break after a relationship, I would date you as its not nice for your gf that youre saying that to someone else. Even though youre loyal and said youd never do something disloyal, its not the nicest for your gf if her bf is saying that to a girl he had a crush on. I just wanna be best friends anyway. He got the message that Id never wanna be in a relationship which is good and we get along so well. He saw that I was stressed about this situation. Has he done anything wrong, or is it just harmless him saying what he said? I recommended he talk to his gf about what he said and maybe shell understand. Nothing wrong with him crushing on me- he did nothing wrong and never been cheating. He just sees me as a close friend now. I stressed because I wanted to return compliment to say how I value him as a person I said if I were to look for a relationship Id say yes to dating you if you were single, but that will never happen as me dating / getting in a relationship situation would never happen as I dont ever want to be in one for personal reasons not even in the future. But I dont know if done something wrong - I said to him he can tell his gf I told him this. I saw my comment as harmless as that scenario of me and him dating wont exist cause I dont want. A relationship. I dont know if me confronting him saying he has a crush on me caused him to make the I would get with you if I were single compliment - I confronted him cause I was scared hed develop more feeling for me than his gf and told him this and to tell his gf if that did happen, but he said he doesnt, he loves his gf to bits and that he only sees me as best friend- the crush fizzled out. Was what he said to me wrong? Should I keep encouraging him to tell his gf what he told me and what I told him or is it nothing? Thank you xxxx

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Personally,  I feel what this boy and his girlfriend discuss is their business and I would keep out of it and leave them too it. It may also be a good idea to avoid chatting about what has been said in the past and ensure than any conversations you have are purely platonic so he is under no illusions you only want him as a friend. 

HBI645

10/13/2021 3:06:38 PM

What bra siza do I need for top 72cm, breast 70cm, under 65cm

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30AA is your bra size based on these measurements.

OHK753

10/13/2021 12:19:59 PM

Are recurring lumps (not always in same area) in your outer labia a sign of a hormonal imbalance or is it maybe using too much soap? thank you, Vicki.

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Small bumps are naturally present inside the labia and are not anything you need worry about. But certainly you do not need to over wash this area and soap may be causing irritation, so try using water as much as possible and avoid perfumed soaps.

DCG203

10/12/2021 8:02:58 PM

can anxiety cause physical symptoms that keep you in bed (nausea, dizziness, headaches) i'm scared it's a brain tumor

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Feeling anxious can cause all sorts of symptoms and it is unlikely you have a specific medical problem such as a tumour. But getting out of bed, getting dressed and tidying your room is a great way to start the day and ensure you feel less anxious and more inclined to take on the rest of the day. So please try this and let me know how you get on.

GBS758

10/12/2021 8:02:20 PM

Hi Vicki. I know you're not a physician, but would you be willing to tell me if you think it's likely that I'm pregnant? I'm 15, 5'5 and 110 pounds. I had sex for the first time four weeks ago, but the condom unfortunately broke. I am not on any kind of contraceptive, as I didn't think the condom would break. Before this, my periods were extremely regular (29 days) except for if I get too stressed. I have been stressed lately because of this whole situation, but my period has never been this late because of stress. So, here's the kicker - my period was due two weeks ago. It's only ever been two days late in my whole life. I've noticed some breast tenderness and bloating, as well as light cramping in my uterus. I'm not sure if these are signs of pregnancy or my impending late period. I'm literally terrified. My parents have told me since I was a little girl that they would kick me out of the house if I ever got pregnant under their roof. I feel as though it's extremely likely that I'm expecting. The boy's father and I have been dating for just two months, and we only had sex once. I now realize that I was probably too young to engage in intercourse, or that I should have at least been on some sort of hormonal birth control. I'm a straight A student and I wanted to go to uni, so I'm horrified that I could have ruined my future like this. Please let me know what you think. xx A

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Hi, the first thing to do is to take a pregnancy test this will let you know if indeed you are pregnant and if not will put your mind at rest. Now you can dot this at your doctor's, local chemist or even local sexual health clinic, free of charge. If you prefer you can also purchase a 'at home' test kit from most supermarkets and chemists. Once you have the answer to the test you can then decide how you want to proceed.

TRC201

10/12/2021 6:45:25 PM

Vicki how many people were in your friend group in school, were you the popular kid or the nerd?

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Hi, there were six girls in my friendship group. I probably sat in the middle of the group for all things, average I guess!

I do remember being the last in the group to notice the signs of puberty, but I was very lucky they did not tease me and were always supportive.

KPY452

10/12/2021 6:44:49 PM

pls tell me my size 69 under 74 in the middle and 74 at the top too.

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32AA is your bra size based on these measurements.

HBR586

10/12/2021 6:44:15 PM

Vicki, what time of day does your first period come, can I make it happen at the weekend and early in the morning about 10 cuz my dad takes my brother out to play football at that time.

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Hi, I am afraid periods at any age can come whenever they like. There is no way to set a time for them. My tip would be to have a chat to your mum about keeping some pads or liners in your bedroom, so you are always prepared no matter what day or time. And don't worry about your dad he will understand how special this time is for your and will want to respect you privacy.