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RFO706

1/24/2025 6:25:13 AM

What is a good stickers to put on our face for spot that is selling in Thailand?

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Hi, my daughters both love the Revolution brand for spot patches.

BAF167

1/24/2025 3:39:21 AM

Hello!! Might be a bit of a weird question but oh wellIm only 13 and am having sexual desires, they dont disturb me unless theres nothing distracting me at all but sometimes they can be intense. Is this normal and what can I do when they happen? Thank you!

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Hi, yes having thoughts of a sexual nature are very common during puberty and because your brain is now maturing and considering so many more adult themed scenarios, sexual ones being just one of them. They can be a little alarming at first and I would urge you to read my blog below for more understanding on what you can expect over the coming years and as you continue your journey into adulthood.

Articles | Lil-Lets Becoming a Teen

TPX670

1/24/2025 1:39:43 AM

Dear Vicki I am 19 and have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. He is so kind and caring and treats me so well. We often mention getting married together and having children and having our own house together one day. I love him so much and he loves me, but sometimes I get a voice in my head telling me to break up with him and I question if he is the one after all? I love being around him and I often feel the pure love for him in my chest, but there are times when Im on my own late at night and I find myself questioning my love for him. I really hate these moments and they make me quite upset as I dont like having these doubts about him but I cant help it. Any advice on why these doubts mean and why Im having them ?Hes not your conventionally attractive man, but I do find him attractive most of the time. He stoped playing sport a year ago and has put on some weight, which doesnt really bother me, but what does bother me is that he does no exercise at all and Im worried about his health now and in the future. But hes too lazy to do anything. His diet is poor too. Hes also not driving yet, nor has made any attempts to start. This annoys me slightly and I often nag him to start, but again he is to lazy. But in every other aspect of his life hes very driven for example his work, college, family time, friends, and me of course. But what should I do about these doubts in the back of my head? Are they right ?

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Hi, relationships are all about compromise and let's be honest here we are all different, will have differing views on what is important in our lives. What you have to consider is whether these differences in what drives you both are unimportant when based on your love for one another.

Why not have an honest chat with your boyfriend and let him know of your concerns and fears, allowing him to share with you what he wants to do, what are his personal life goals...etc and you can then both work out if these align.

As for the future and making plans, just hold fire on these, there really is no rush.

YLU637

1/23/2025 9:05:17 PM

It's about three days before I'm due my period this month and my breasts typically feel quite heavy and dense/uneven in texture anyway but during the past few days it feels like my breasts are heavier, slightly fuller, redder and hotter in temperature than normal and bumpier, especially around the top of my breasts where it feels like I can feel a raised ridge of breast tissue or a lump. I've literally spent the last half an hour sobbing my eyes out.

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HIB436

1/23/2025 8:02:06 PM

Im scared

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CNM583

1/22/2025 2:47:31 PM

Hi Vicki! I like a guy who likes me in class. All my friends know that he likes me but do not know that I like him back. Should I tell them thus or not... Should I spill it out... I am afraid that they will tease me but it is getting very difficult as I blush whenever I get near him or listen to his name. Sorry for a such silly need of advice. xxxmaya

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EJI227

1/21/2025 9:14:00 PM

I'm really unhappy with my body at the moment and I know bodies change in puberty etc etc but ive looked like this and been unhappy with the way my body looks for ages. I do exercise 5 hours a week but I never seem to be able to drop weight. what are some ways I can without needing to diet?

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Hi, here's the thing, if you are going through puberty your weight will increase as your body grows into it's adult size, so please don't focus too much on what the scales say. Instead continue with the exercising and eat a balanced diet with just one treat or snack a day.  If you find you are hungry throughout the day then increase the amount of food at mealtimes, because believe it or not, your body actually needs more calories not less during puberty.

See this blog below for more information.

Gaining weight as a teen

BHX081

1/21/2025 1:33:41 AM

Hi whats my bra size, the overbust is 82cm, bust is 85cm and underbust is 76cm

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NQW835

1/20/2025 9:34:25 PM

hi again, I'm the one who asked about wired bras (RDI154). I just started wearing one and I'm a 32C but my mum said I'll be fine with a 34B bc the store ran out of the bras she thought would be best in size 32C. I think the bra fits alright and I dont think the wire digs in, but how do I know for sure to be certain it's okay?

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DQI665

1/20/2025 9:23:18 PM

Hi it's DFN237. Basically my sports bras are too tight, it feels like I'm being compressed and they leave red marks. My normal bras, when I move my shoulders, the band slides up pulled by the strap but if I loosen the straps then they fall off my shoulders. I can't seem to adjust it right and it's really uncomfortable

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