AFN436

6/19/2025 6:56:13 AM

Hey this is BYQ078 and I measured myself I had never done it so I got some advice that I should be able to breathe and lift my chest up and down with tape measure around me anyway 1 = 24.5 2= 26.5 and 3= 27.5 I measured myself quite a few times as I believe that would make me a b cup but I cant really believe thats true as sorry if this is tmi but my nipple buds are only like marble/ ping pong balls, if I was a b cup is it time to get a bra? Also with modi body I meant are there period pants good??

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Hi, based on my calculations this would make you a 28A. So a crop top or training bra will be fine for now. As for period pants, yes these seem fine, but if you live in the UK consider Primark's range of period pants, they are very good.

LJM420

6/18/2025 5:36:22 PM

Ive tried to put a tampon in and it really hurts. I even tried to insert a clean finger like you tell people to do and that hurts aswell

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It may be that you are not relaxed when doing this, try giving a little cough as you insert, if this does not help then wait and try again in a couple of months.

THE627

6/18/2025 3:41:28 PM

Hey Vicki, I asked question PBE773 and yesterday I had a really bad headache ( I had to go home early) and today I just got cramps and really heavy discharge. You also mentioned something about if I'm seeing brownish discharge that could be my period. I haven't seen anything yet but would I be able to see it on black pants? And about the discharge, cramps and headaches could my period be coming this month? Thx- H

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Hi, it would be impossible to say when the exact date for your first period will be, as only your body knows this. Heat can cause headaches so stay out of the sun and drink lots of water...and the cramps maybe period cramps, but could just as likely be growing pains. My tip is to be patient, be prepared and wait for your body to decide when the time is here for your first period.

GMP310

6/18/2025 2:42:21 PM

Im 19 and Im a 40e to an f cup I really dont like having big boobs

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Hi, if you find that your breast size is impacting on your daily life, or you are struggling with health issues like chronic back ache, then have a chat to your doctor who may be able to offer you advice on how to help with this discomfort.  A good supporting bra is ideal for a fuller bust, one with a wide band and straps that will give you that extra support you need. Avoid padded bras if possible or even wired ones and go for a larger cup, for comfort and support.

BYQ078

6/18/2025 7:10:22 AM

So basically I have just turned 12 and I have had breast buds for abt a year now and they are growing rlly slowly and are still like buds I wear a crop top when is it time to wear a bra should I be worried?? When will I start my period I have quite a lot of pubic hair and some armpit hair

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Hi, why not measure yourself as in the image below and send these over to me for a guide to your bra size. The websites you mentioned are fine for first  bras, but they are quite expensive and you may find stores like M&S, Primark and Matalan are better choices. As for first periods, if you have noticed pubic and underarm hair and maybe even discharge, then these are great signs your period is not too far away and I would now keep some pads or liners with you from now on, and when out and about. Our Lil-Lets teens starter kit would be ideal.

PPE872

6/17/2025 9:50:56 PM

Tips for traveling on your period? Thanks

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Check out my blog - Periods on holiday, all you need to know to make sure you have fun when out and about even if your period arrives.

Period on your holiday

SGS537

6/17/2025 9:50:27 PM

I just wanted to tell you that you are so awesome for taking time out of your day to answer our questions. I really appreciate you. Thank you so much.

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You are most welcome, I love helping girls navigate puberty, it's such a tough time and I always want to make it as easy as I possibly can for our visitors to the Becoming a Teen website.

EHK246

6/17/2025 9:48:20 PM

My tampon is in the right hole at least I think but when I pee it falls out it's not in the hold where pee comes out though

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Hi, it seems that you have not inserted the tampon high enough inside the vaginal opening and this is why it falls out when you push to pee. Try inserting until your knuckle or the base of the outer applicator touches the entrance to your vagina and in a slanting direction towards the base of your spine, this should stop this happening.

See our usage instructions below-

How to Insert a Tampon | Usage Instructions | Lil-Lets

UGI032

6/17/2025 9:47:10 PM

Having your period in the summer absolutely sucks I can get a tampon in but it hurts like heck and it won't go any higher. Do you have tip?

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Hi, like anything new using a tampon can take a little practice. My tips are to try on your heaviest day, usually day 2-3 and relax, either stand with knees bent, or hover of the toilet. Then aim the tampon in a slanting direction towards the base of your spine, this will give you the most comfortable fit. If you've inserted it high enough your knuckle should just  be touching the entrance to your vagina. Some people also find giving a little cough as they insert helps relax the vaginal entrance and makes insertion easier. And for first time tampons I recommend the lite absorbency from Lil-Lets.

See our video below for more tips.

How to Insert a Tampon | Usage Instructions | Lil-Lets

BSL704

6/17/2025 9:43:36 PM

I've had suicidal thoughts in the past and have done self harm. My closest friend knows but my parents don't. It's kinda an awkward subject and I'm scared to tell them. I feel like they might find it stupid.

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Hi and thank you so much for sharing something so personal—that takes a lot of courage. What you're feeling is completely valid, and you're not alone in this. Many teens feel unsure or scared about opening-up, especially to parents, but talking about your mental health is one of the strongest and most important things you can do.

Remember it’s okay to talk about how you feel , your feelings are real, and they matter. Sometimes parents just don’t know how to respond at first. They might be surprised or even scared themselves. But most of the time, once they understand what you’re going through, they’ll want to help and support you. You deserve that support.