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QTQ030

11/5/2024 6:39:18 PM

What do I do if I am moody and my mom wont hear of it Ive tried talking to her telling her everything and she says to have better control I need a break from her yelling at me or grounding me that my behavior is unacceptable but I cant stand it Im fine around my friends but as soon as my mom trys to micromanage I snap but she will not care what I have to say no matter what so talking to her wont work what do I do??

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QVS033

11/5/2024 6:17:18 PM

Can you tell just by looking at someone wether they wear a size d/DD cup or larger? I'm confused because sometimes when I look at my chest it feels like there's nothing there but other times when I look down at my chest it feels like my breasts are huge/big. Also how accurate are online bra calculators and can they necessarily be 100% trusted ? On my dad's side of the family, chest sizes are fairly small but on my mums side of the family chest sizes are sort of around a F-H cup so I figured I would be around a DD cup size.

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WMY103

11/5/2024 4:45:05 PM

What does it mean when people say third base, is it even a thing? I do have a boyfriend and his friends keep asking him if we have gone this far, I don't want to look stupid but I really don't know what this means.

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This is a phrase based on 'baseball' terminology and not thankfully not used that frequently any more.  Below is what the bases  refer to, but please don't feel you have to judge yours and your boyfriends relationship on these, as I have said they are quite old fashioned and I think teens and adults now have a lot more respect for each other than to name these.

First Base –              Kissing

Second Base –         Touching someone’s skin above the waist and under clothing, generally the breasts.

Third Base –             Touching someone below the waist. Intimate sexual relations but not sexual intercourse.

Home RunSexual Intercourse

GEX861

11/5/2024 4:41:12 PM

This girl in class in spreading rumours about me online, it's making me really upset and I don't know how to stop it.

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JPM378

11/5/2024 4:38:07 PM

vicki I've clicked on a site that is not good and I am scared now that something awful will happen to me and my family, what should I do am I a bad person?

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CNB364

11/5/2024 4:33:04 PM

vicki, now it looks like the side bits of my vagina that stick out are different sizes, one side is longer than the other, I don't know what I have done to make this happen, please help me!!

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JJF387

11/5/2024 6:53:55 AM

Hi Vicki. We were doing irish in school by the way I'm from Ireland and there was a girl named. Natalie that wrote to a famous golfer. So I decided to try. And write a letter to janet jackson wish me good luck. Because I feel like she is not going to answer. Do you a question for her that I can write in my letter it's fine if you don't I just feel like it's stupid like it's very small that she won't reply any tips

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DCP384

11/5/2024 3:20:21 AM

Hi vicki! i need some help with boys.. so, im 14 and in grade 9. theres this boy in my first period class and ever since the first day of school ive been eyeing him. i have never talked to him we only made eye contact a few times. he has the same lunch time as me and i listen in on his conversations with his friends and he seems really nice and i sorta like him. this is the first time ive ever felt like this. i told one of my friends and she said to ask one of his friends for his number but thatd be way to awkward for me. i have diagnosed anxiety so its hard for me to talk to new people.. i think hes really cute and nice and i realllyyyy wanna talk to him and be friends and find out if i actually like like him!! how do i do it! hes alone sometimes and i say to myself to go up to him but i never have the courage or words to say anything! thank you!!

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ABK064

11/4/2024 8:26:28 PM

how do you know your period is coming because im scared its just going to come randomly, i'm only 9 nearly 10 but i just want to know when to get pads and anything else i might need plz tell me when to expect my period ps am i too young to be wearing crop-top/bras ?

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VOE652

11/4/2024 6:21:27 PM

Hi Vicki I had a small surgery on my hand so I cant do pe and Im not sure what to do, do I go to pe with my kit and just not join in or do I go to the library or what . If I go to pe do I get changed or stay in my uniform? Pls help its tomorrow x

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