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7/20/2018 10:51:04 PM

Do u do the lites with an applicator

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7/20/2018 10:29:14 PM

I really would like to buy a sport bra/ crop top from somewhere to wear at night so Im comfy and cool. I already wear bras at a 32a but dont want to ask my mum for a sports bra or crop top type thing. Im too embarrassed. Would you think i could buy a cheap one myself with my own money? How would I tell mum without feeling embarrassed? Id really love one. Xx

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7/20/2018 10:23:57 PM

I don't want to have boobs can I remove them

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7/20/2018 10:20:43 PM

My mum keeps nagging me to put studs in my ear piercing but I want them to close

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7/20/2018 10:19:44 PM

I don't have braces yet but have retainers. They feel loose on the right hand side and come off easily if I give a it a slight nudge

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7/20/2018 9:36:05 PM

Hi In February i told a close friend that i self harm when i told him he got annoyed as he was shocked and didn't know how to react. After this I started getting severe panic attacks when ever I saw him. A teacher found out and has helped with it a lot to the point where yesterday i sat opposite him and spoke but i had to look down. But in this conversation we spoke about my self harm and he said he had also cut before. He told me I'm the only one who knows and I don't know what to do or how to feel. Any advice in what to do or about the situation in general?

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7/20/2018 9:33:51 PM

Hi so I put a tampon in When I had my period and idk if I put it in the wrong hole but it REALLY hurt when I tried to pull it out ?

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7/20/2018 9:04:23 PM

hi you said i had my period because i had very very light brown spots in my pants but im not sure because there were only two or three pieces less than the size of a five pence pice but if it is my period how do i tell my mum im 10 and a half

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7/20/2018 9:02:54 PM

Why are my nipples big?

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7/20/2018 9:02:25 PM

A boy who I like left school and apparently he liked me and Ill never see him again and Im so sad

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