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3/29/2020 8:04:17 AM

hi, so basically for a couple of days i have had this fuzzy feeling in lowe head almost my neck. and it doesnt actually hurt but its discomfort. Im really scared i have a brain clot or something and im going to die. i dont want to bother the doctors with everything going on atm, but i dont know what to do. i had this ages ago and it just went away, maybe its just stress? thanks x

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3/29/2020 4:24:09 AM

how does someone masturbate?

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3/29/2020 3:49:36 AM

my breast buds have been around for about a year and a half, they are very tender and i have some discharge and pubic hair, im turning 12 over the summer. my buds cover my whole boob is that normal? and are they always going to be there?

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3/29/2020 12:31:35 AM

I am 11 and I only have one breast bud it has been like this for more than 6 months what if it stays like this forever, it makes me very uncomfortable because I have 2 other sisters and one of them is my twin and I can see that she has breast buds

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3/28/2020 9:44:04 PM

hi vicki, so whenever i shave down there i get little red bumps then when the hair grows back it is really itchy, should i stop shaving or am i being irrational?

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3/28/2020 9:04:48 PM

Hi vicki Im 17 and Ive had my period since I was 13, but lately I feel a kind of rush in my breasts sometimes? Kind of like butterflies or flutters. It only started happening a couple months ago. Is this normal? Is it just a new feeling that comes with arousal Ive never felt before? I searched it online and the only thing that comes up is for symptoms of lactation but Im not pregnant because Im on the pill and have been getting my period as normal and no symptoms of pregnancy? Is it just an increase in some hormone or something or is it extra puberty stuff because Im a bit of a late bloomer and have no boobs yet haha maddy

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3/28/2020 8:20:32 PM

I started puberty like 2/3 years ago I have had pubic hair for about two years I have discharge and underarm hair and boobs but I still dont have my period but I do get really bad cramps and I dont know whats happening

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3/28/2020 8:13:53 PM

Can you please work out my breast size. 69cm below 75cm bust 71cm top

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3/28/2020 8:03:00 PM

Hi Vicki, Im 18 years old and Im in college in Dublin in Ireland. I met this boy about a month ago and I really like him. Weve been for dates and weve went out loads together. And weve slept together a few times. When we would text hed always give like nice chunky responses. Because of the Coronavirus Ive had to move back down home, which is down the country. So we dont see each other anymore but still text. But recently like in the last couple of days he has been a dry texter and trying to make more conversation is getting hard cause I cant think of any more questions to ask or topics to talk about. Why do you think hes become a dry texter? Is it because hes getting bored of me... cause were not seeing each other at all? I dont know if I should ask him why hes texting less responses but I dont want to come across sensitive or needy.What should I do? Thanks x

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3/28/2020 7:05:06 PM

My mum always check's my phone without asking me and i feel it's a violation of my property. She goes on it without me knowing and it really frustrates me. She has to know my password and other details. What should i do?

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